ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE!

Well-today was all about love for me and what a day it was!

The Beatles were not wrong- it IS all you need and if you love a few people and a few people love you, you are truly blessed.

I had my usual long Monday list of THINGS THAT MUST BE DONE and love intervened in many ways- a bit like a hungry, determined cat that will NOT leave you alone until you stop and feed it!

There were family members fed up with me, family members I was fed up with, people who needed my love more thanĀ I had realised and the pain and joy of dealing with it all. And, funnily enough, at the end of a day that still has 90% of tasks undone, it feels like the most satisfying, love filled, frustrating and yet worthwhile day ever. Indeed, a day to remind me to keep the main thing the main thing!

I’ve been reviewing our programs lately and reflecting on why kids do so well on only once or twice a week attendance and I am convinced it is also aboutĀ  love. The small staff at ICE LOVE their kids and I delight in the cheerful giggles, happy noises and smiling faces I see every day. Looks like in education we also need to keep the main thing the main thing. The Beatles were onto something-love transforms, heals and brings us closer. It is just as necessary in education as it is in our personal lives!

OUR LOST CHILDREN

I see so many children without boundaries, rules, guidelines and my heart aches for them. It seems that many parents are not able to take up their responsibilities and manage their families. Parents ring up and complain,
” I can’t get him to behave, go to school, get dressed etc “, and we are talking about children 5-10 years of age!
When we get to meet these children they look scared as well they might be. The world is a scary place without rules, (try driving in Bali!) and it is the rules and the “edges” that keep us safe.

Of course as we grow we push out the edges and explore but in order to do that you have to know where the edges are! These poor children are allowed to lose their tempers, make inappropriate decisions and make choices that are far too heavy for young shoulders. Do we not love our children enough to model, demonstrate, explain and show kids the pathways that will lead to happiness and peace of mind

Enough of this- all parents take your power back and give your children the loving discipline they need. They don’t want fuzzy boundaries. They want to feel safe enough to get on with the job of being kids and exploring their worlds- both inner and outer. These children are lost in a miasma of fuzzy thinking and lack of clear thinking about parental responsibility. Let’s rescue them and give them all the protection, direction and loving guidance they need!

CRUELTY TO KIDS FROM THE SYSTEM

I am angry-WAY angry and will not be silenced. All thinking educators in Australia, if not the whole world need to raise their voices!

I have just finished assessing a perfectly normal 7 year old. She is reading a little ahead of her age level, knows most sounds, has reasonable phonological awareness, can spell at the appropriate level and has a lovely bubbly friendly manner- yet she hates school! She is convinced she is “no good” at her school-work.
WHY?
Because she is forced to write “too fast” (her speed of writing is normal ) and she has to attend extra classes most day to help her catch up.
Catch up to what?
Catch up to some raving lunatic’s idea of what a 7 year old should be able to do.
So- all these extra classes, homework, meetings to let her Mum know her “problems” have eventually caused some nervous behaviours that have now attracted the school psychologist’s attention.

For pity’s sake STOP this nonsense and let children be children.
They do 5 hours at school and need to run and play, socialise and enjoy their learning and find out who they are.

We have actually had a couple of complaints from parents because the children enjoy their learning at ICE!!!!!

Why are we punishing children like this? It IS cruelty and Principals and teachers need to stop before more children have nervous breakdowns, rates of suicides go up and all children HATE school.

It is quite possible to teach in an explicit, “hands-on”, planned manner that ensures all children learn, have appropriate learning activities and actually enjoy the process. Sure- there will be hard bits. There always are. This does not mean we have to destroy their childhoods and make the whole thing hard.

We are making the fear of NAPLAN like some sort of dreadful threat that hovers over all schools and so the test has become the default curriculum.

So what if the scores are a bit low? The teachers can adjust, improve their teaching and ensure all children’s needs are catered for- they do not need to wield this huge hammer over children and Principals need to develop their spines and refuse to bend to the shameful practice of teaching to the test and putting children under this much pressure.

We have had an education system that teaches children to think, wonder and dream and achieve their goals. Sure- we have needed to address some literacy and numeracy deficits caused in large part by lack of curriculum documents, teaching materials and lack of teacher support. So fix the problems- not actually that hard! Stop taking the lazy way out by fixating on a national test as being the only way we can be sure children are learning.

The children are suffering.
Who from our senseless system will fix this young child’s broken spirit?
SHAME SHAME SHAME!

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